Whenever one writes about a problem in the United States, especially concerning the racial atmosphere, the problem written about is usually black people, that they are either extremist, irresponsible, or ideologically naive.
  • Facebones@reddthat.com
    62·
    6 months ago

    My best friends (a couple) are more progressive than the average liberal but they VERY much fall into this pattern SO quickly if I cross the wrong line, especially with cars/infrastructure. They turn conservative real quick. Lad was running me home recently after helping him work on their new shed at the house she just bought, and got kinda crappy at me for not taking on a car loan.

    They know my whole deal, I’m on a fixed income with the VA with a (thankfully) cheap mortgage but I’m not rolling in it.I get a bus discount, I travel alot on Amtrak to places like DC, NYC, etc and tend to do things on a whim around town BECAUSE I keep my margin free. But still, because HE got into an auto loan (he’s still not paid off because he refinanced once or twice) before both prices and borrowing rates skyrocketed, there’s no reason I couldn’t get a brand new car AND pay the premium insurance, AND pay for maintenance and gas.

    He got outright snippy about it. Like bro sorry it’s just not high on my priority list. One day, but I get to the doctor and the grocery store fine and y’all help me the once every month or two I need new water dispenser bottles (which I occassionally pitch in on gas for and work around whatever we’re doing anyway together.) So I just don’t care.

    • CascadeOfLight [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      6·
      6 months ago

      Violence is the only thing that has ever destroyed oppression.

      Violence, and the threat of violence, is the only way to make someone who is persecuting you for their own material benefit stop.

    • karthnemesis@leminal.spaceEnglish
      61·
      6 months ago

      Is it not violent for a child to go to bed hungry in the richest country in the world? I think that is violent. But that type of violence is so institutionalized that it becomes a part of our way of life. (…) And that again is because the oppressor makes his violence a part of the functioning society. (…)

      Now, I think the biggest problem with the white liberal in America, and perhaps the liberal around the world, is that his primary task is to stop confrontation, stop conflicts, not to redress grievances, but to stop confrontation. (…) once we see what the primary task of the liberal is, then we can see the necessity of not wasting time with him. His primary role is to stop confrontation. Because the liberal assumes a priori that a confrontation is not going to solve the problem. (…)

      I think that history has shown that confrontation in many cases has resolved quite a number of problems (…) In many cases, stopping confrontation really means prolonging suffering.

      The liberal is so preoccupied with stopping confrontation that he usually finds himself defending and calling for law and order, the law and order of the oppressor. (…)

      You cannot engage with the article in good faith without addressing the point that the system engages in passive but pervasive constant violence against minorities.

      When you say you do not want to legitimize violence, you ignore their point that violence is nonetheless happening, and will not change through politely requesting those in charge, currently enabling or actively doing the violence, to stop it please. They are actively rewarded by inflicting violence on others through material gains. They have no good reason to stop, since it is already clear pesky morals are not getting in the way.

      You state “we should just get rid of exceptions,” but you have no actual proposal for convincing those with no reason to be convinced, e.g. the people in power. We are not in a void where everyone starts off on equal footing. We are in a world where pervasive violence is quietly carried out every minute of every day.

      Police violence, overseas wars, cutting minorities off from basic needs, these are all things that quiet lawful protests and “voting really hard” have not budged.

      Your argument is not at all engaging with this article’s content.

      My point is less to convince you to suddenly engage in good faith than to point out to onlookers how you are not. My suggestion to those onlookers is to read the actual article themselves, as it makes for some interesting reflection, regardless of agreement with it.

        • karthnemesis@leminal.spaceEnglish
          31·
          6 months ago

          I have no interest in further talking to someone who brings up what the article counters with zero counterpoints, and just insists the original point progressively louder.

          (Edit: Total comment rehaul to better explain my position, but similar sentiment.)