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Cake day: January 21st, 2024

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  • We just don’t know the reason so can never be sure what’s actually better. So maybe not. Maybe something bad happened as a one off, maybe it was school bullying & nothing to do with the parents.

    As I suggested, some police depts. will handle it better than others, so there’s a risk that it’s not the best option. But that doesn’t mean it’ll always be the worse one.

    So would it be better to just leave them alone to become permanently homeless? Depending on the country, even the state or charity orphanage may not be better than going home. There’s a tiine of variables we don’t know.

    How to you propose someone ‘directly’ helps btw? Adopt them on the spot?! Ask them what they want? (This won’t necessarily be the best thing for them). Also bear in mind that the op had said they’d just taken mushrooms… A scared homeless kid having two drugged up strangers talking to them, that’s not going to be bad at all is it?!

    Anyhow, it’s all wild speculation. All anyone can do is make as best a decision for the moment.




  • For trying to find a runaway girl a safe place to sleep & not get sucked in to homelessness or worse? The police may not be the best option, depending on who comes out & where they live, but arguably better than nothing. You can’t second guess why they ran away, but shitting on someone for trying to help with a single word response…good job keyboard warrior.










  • True it does help with starting conversations sometimes & being able to spot people with similar tastes when meeting new people. But I personally do not like the idea of having to wear (or do) something purely for the benefit of someone else. It’s an unpleasant peer pressure essentially.

    Do you not think that you may be missing out on good company, just because that person doesn’t display their personality to you?



  • To show off their allegiance, associate with their achievements & generally bask in someone else’s glory to feel good.

    Much the same as wearing band t-shirts really. Or any brand. Plus it can help people feel like their ‘fitting in’ with their peers.

    Like it, lump it or ignore it. Your choice. It doesn’t bother me personally, though I did wonder why myself in the past.

    In this case, Argentina, I can’t help that this is an apt choice given the criticism levelled at the team’s bad behaviour at the WC. If this was made recently, a nice touch!