• Steve
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    7 days ago

    Not realy. Simple, direct, unsophisticated interaction, isn’t manipulative.

    Sitting at an ordinary dinner at home and asking “Do you want to marry me?” That’s not a manipulation.

    Intentionally going out to a fancy dinner, creating a public scene, using some elaborate language reminding them of things you both enjoyed? That’s manipulation.

    • ParlimentOfDoom@piefed.zip
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      7 days ago

      Using how proposals are presented in media isn’t a great analogy. Most people discuss getting married long before there’s a formal Ask.

      • Steve
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        edit-2
        7 days ago

        True. But fictional or not, it’s a perfect example of the difference.