• a9cx34udP4ZZ0@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    Some kids absolutely need to be spanked. I was one of them - timeouts did nothing. Taking things away did nothing. Getting the threat of being spanked? Definitely stopped me in my tracks. Actually getting spanked? That’s the last time I was going to try whatever stunt caused it.

    My kids don’t need to be spanked and never have been, other methods have always worked to curb bad behavior. Anyone saying “spanking is never acceptable” has apparently never had a shithead boy who is unphased by other forms of punishment.

    For adults wondering if it’s OK to spank: if you’re spanking your kid out of anger or it’s the first thing you turn to, you’re doing something very wrong. It should be the big red button of last resort.

    • Beemo Dachboden@feddit.org
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      4 hours ago

      Spanking is never okay.

      Just because you are too stupid to see other ways to handle a literal child does not make it okay to hit said child.
      Yes, even if you are referring to yourself as the child.

      And please just for a second think about the fact, that you only stated other forms of punishment as not working on you and didn’t even consider actual forms of pedagogical parenting, before you black out in anger that I called you stupid.

      I didn’t even read the article as there are countless studies out already that comprehensively show that hitting children is always harmful and never useful.