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minus-squareStevelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·1 month agoThat’s the kind of question where almost everyone will give you the same answer. A friend will say you’re friends, because you are. Non-friends will say you’re friends; because either they want to take advantage, or don’t want to offend.
minus-squareBoomkop3@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 month agoPeople tend to answer honestly in my experience. Those who lied and became friends after a while, that’s just a friend gained. As for taking advantage, I guess that depends on the person. I’m not particularly vulnerable, as I set the same standards for friends and strangers.
That’s the kind of question where almost everyone will give you the same answer.
A friend will say you’re friends, because you are.
Non-friends will say you’re friends; because either they want to take advantage, or don’t want to offend.
People tend to answer honestly in my experience. Those who lied and became friends after a while, that’s just a friend gained.
As for taking advantage, I guess that depends on the person. I’m not particularly vulnerable, as I set the same standards for friends and strangers.