so this one girl, i’ll call her ella (19f) is transphobic, homophobic
she lashes out a lot, exaggerates things, and cannot read social cues. however, she has autism and adhd and is mentally much younger.
she also gets mad when i call a trans man “he” and she says “SHE’S A GIRL EVEN THO SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN LOL”
she says she got her views from her parents and refuses to change because “it’s the way i am”. for someone who was mentally 19, I’d cut contact, but she’s mentally a lot younger.
The only thing I’m looking at is the age 19. A lot of people are stupid when they’re 19, including her. It could be that she doesn’t have enough life experience to question what she’s been taught, so she defaults to what she was taught.
It is up to you to decide to be around her as she grows up and you find out who she will become.