It gets messy when people act like God has an active hand in every single little thing that happens. It’s right up there with “everything happens for a reason”. You know, rape happens for a reason. You just don’t know why yet.

I like to frame it as free will & sometimes things just…happen. Accidents happen. Free will principle. Sometimes bad things happen because of bad people, sometimes bad things happen because you’re stupid…it just seems to make more sense than an overly involved god.