I am a large (2XL) male that would like to dress better. But every time I find classy clothes that make me look more professional it’s just a sensory nightmare. Rough fabrics, too tight in places, hard for the skin to breathe in, etc.
I need something other than baggy black t-shirts and soft jeans.
Have you men found classy clothes that make you look professional but is still comfortable to wear?
You should almost certainly go to a tailor. It makes a world of difference if “professional” is your goal. It can be tricky to find a good one, but when you do, it’s incredible. It can be surprisingly cheap too (although building a wardrobe that has high quality piece that are worth tailoring can be quite expensive. This is best done gradually)
I think that this is especially true if you’re on the larger side, because a greater amount of body mass means that qualitative differences in where we store that mass will be more apparent.
Something I liked about going to a tailor is I could show them clothes that I liked versus ones I didn’t (or explain what had been bothering me about certain clothes). They were able to suggest alternatives.