I used to enjoy hanging out with my childhood buddies, but now my goals have changed and When I’m with them, I feel like I’m not growing. They smoke and drink, and none of them are really motivated. I want to be around people who can help me learn and grow.
Someone said it so true “you’re sum of 5 people , you spend your time with “
Any advice where should i look out for people who have some bigger goals Cause in my college also more or less everyone is same .
Absolutely youre right, and i feel qualified enough to answer your questions as i have been thinking same thing for years and actually left some people a week or two ago for same reason, my advice to you is you need to find older people with money, and take their advice, maybe finde job, even if youre underpaid, make sure to be useful to them, be nice be smart dress as well as possible, for handshake, develop talking skill, maybe read few books on self education, (i dont know if you need those just putting it out ther, maybe som1 will) and work for those guys, learn from them, in worst case scenario you get a little bit of money and knowledge on top, if you do everything right they will probably try to get you close to them, and also need to out this tip out there, i was in same situation, i used to work with millionaire guys one of them was head police man, a lot of network he had, and we thanks for my indefatigable got close, to the point that we used to call each other brothers, and before that would happen they tested me how trustful i was but placing stack of 100 euros with car tools i always used to be around with, i saw it and obviously im a man of god and my qualities stand a lot highter than that, i didnt take money for me instead i took it to them and gave it to them. Sait this bc you need to be focused, you only get one chance with older people, they dont duck around like people our age would right, so yeah if you have any questions im here, good luck.
Changing your friend circle can be challenging, but it’s essential for personal development. Be open to new experiences, join clubs or groups aligned with your interests, and consider attending events or workshops where you can meet individuals with similar goals
I want to be around people who can help me learn and grow.
They do too. As in, motivated and ambitious people hang out with other motivated and ambitious people. Make yourself so that others like that want to hang out with you.
I know this might sound rather unhelpful but accepting this is step one.
Hang out with your colleg friends who have achieve their goals so as to motivate you
Get a job. New environment, new people.
You’re in the “lonely” chapter of this journey. You don’t fit in with your old friends but don’t have the success to be around new people. Keep working on yourself and improve your skills and mind. Every entrepreneur goes through this.