First all the bs with Twitter and Elon, then Reddit having an exodus to Lemmy (not complaining lol), then Twitch. Are we like, in an alternate self healing dimension or something?
First all the bs with Twitter and Elon, then Reddit having an exodus to Lemmy (not complaining lol), then Twitch. Are we like, in an alternate self healing dimension or something?
Dying? Twitter is very well “alive” despite everything that has happened. I don’t know what will happen to Reddit and Twitch but I doubt these platforms will “die”. They aren’t dying really. Just becoming worse over time. People will continue using these platforms up to a certain degree.
Agreed. By the same definition fb has been dying for almost a decade, but I’m still forced to use the messenger app since all my friends are on there.
Sorry, but you’re not forced to use it unless your life literally dependend on it. You could always quit if you really wanted to.
ahhh yes, just remove myself from my social circle, why didn’t I think of that?
Hi settinmoon!
I understand your frustration and I don’t want to downplay it but I think we can do better than escalating conflicts. Consider reminding people of to be human if you have the energy for it (and I understand if you don’t) or using the report button to report behaviour you think are unnice.
Thank you
I don’t think using sarcasm as means to express disagreement, and provide examples so that the other party could better understand your viewpoint should be seen as escalating conflict. The other gentleman’s statement although is something I disagree with, but still well with the boundaries of civil discussion, so I’m not seeing a need to report anything.
Sorry if the thread has gotten messy but I feel you. I’ve deleted my Facebook account before I entered university but when I started, I had to create a new one because a lot of the online communication (announcements, group activities, etc.) happen there despite having better alternatives.
We are actually forced to use Facebook. Not in a way where there’s a gun pointed at our head but rather societal norms forces us to. By deviating, people like us are called crazy or a nuisance. I don’t mind being called crazy but I do want to get work done.
A little off topic, but this is how the rest of the world feels about Microsoft/Apple/Google/Amazon/Meta/etc.
America is angry at TikTok, but every time I bring up the fact that I, as a Canadian, am forced to use American software/services, where America steals my data, I am told to “stop using it, no one is forcing you”.
You cannot find a job these days that doesn’t use some kind of American spyware. Microsoft Office, Gsuite, Windows, MacOS, Android, iOS, AWS, Azure, the list just goes on and on…
I am not in support of TikTok stealing my data, but I hate more that America steals my data, and they can actually negotiate with my government to get me in trouble if I do something they deem bad.
Well, in real life I probably do appear to be an autistic security nut to some. I don’t blame people from thinking this way because I came from that place too. You just don’t realize how important infosec is until you do.
I did actually manage to quit FB the website for the past two years and it was largely inconsequential, but if I quit Messenger right now I’d probably loose a good chunk of my contacts. I’m not ready to take that step yet.
Hi d3Xt3r!
I think that the way you’re denying this doesn’t really follow Beehaw’s ethos of being nice. Let’s try to understand others rather than pushing them to act a certain way. I understand your intention but it’s important to note that people have social needs. Sometimes they can be helped by social media and it can be hard to risk social isolation out of principle.
Thank you
Kindly elaborate how exactly I wasn’t being nice! OP claimed that they were “forced” to use Facebook, which, I’m curious as to their choice of words, because unless their life literally dependend on it, I don’t see how it’s possible.
There are other social media platforms out there, and plenty of ways to stay in touch to in this digital and connected era - including using plain old SMS and email. I don’t belive that it’s impossible to disconnect from an evil platform such as Facebook.
The purpose of my comment was to challenge the notion that Facebook is a “necessity”, and I was hoping to wean OP away from it, which can only be a good thing. The point was to spark a debate and get them to question this themselves, and reach their own conclusion. It’s a good thing, not a bad thing.
loool seems like our biggest agreement so far is that we’re engaging in civil discussion… although other folks watching think otherwise
It’s a fundamental problem with moderation that focuses on “being nice and always wholesome” because you wouldn’t believe the things some people get upset by and they will try to argue that anything edgier than a padded cell is rule-breaking. I don’t think your conversation was uncivil either. Besides, “Do not debate strangers” is an absolutely bizarre rule on a platform focused on anonymous debate and discussion.
On the topic of the discussion, I have the same problem as you where all of my friends use Facebook Messenger for chatting. Sure, you could go cold turkey and tell people to contact you through other platforms, but you’ll probably lose a huge chunk of your friend circle that way. Things like group chats also make it worse because you will need the entire group to migrate, and even if they do, people don’t want to juggle two groups with the same purpose. They’ll abandon the one which is less convenient, which unfortunately is the one without Facebook Messenger.
I agree with most what you said here. I’d also add I personally believe I’m not in the place to tell my friends to switch platforms without them actually understanding for themselves why infosec is important. I’m trying to do some of the education but it’s a slow process. Maybe when I move to a different city and lose contact most of them the transition would be automatic. In the meantime I’ll need to continue using these services and try to keep my exposure to a minimum.
I try to remain optimistic about this but companies like Facebook and Microsoft actually being too big to fail is depressing. Feels like we’re all being held hostage and we’ll only be free if something causes these technologies to become obsolete.