Why does it seem people online will openly degrade anyone but out in public everone runs from confrontation? Why is there such social paranoia in public and too scared to socialize with strangers but will happily insult everyone online? If people are so lonely, why don’t they talk with people whil le they are out and exchange contact info? It seems more enjoyable talking with immigrants and better to avoid Canadians. I’m not bothered by dealing with someone talking stupid or if someone wants a friendly hug, it’s quite easy to have a good time with strangers and I have no concrns about giving my number to continue talking.

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    9 months ago

    Because in my experiences, it’s always been easier talking with people who have a specific cultural background, traditions, cultural foods their parents make, usual another language, so they have a sense of identity, family history, some kind values they learn, and that is mainly, but not always, been with immigrants and children of immigrants.

    Multigenerational Canadians have no culture, no traditions based their own family background, no customs, no culural foods, no religion, so Canadians have no common values they share for living in society and instructed from birth about proper social values and the punishments that can happen for not showing proper considerations for peopley. Acting nice does not equate to caring for individuals. Canadians talk about being a good person, but have no objective standard for that is based off of, and only talk about themself being a good person, not about their obligation to be good to others.

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        9 months ago

        Please help me understand, is that supposed to hurt my feelings or am I supposed to be overwhelmed by that? Am I supposed to ask how you can be obtuse?