

I agree with you that all mainstream platforms (FB, Twitter, Reddit - this just the ones I have experience with) work like that.
Believe it or not, but there still exist modern forums with large user bases (stable or growing), so it’s not like it’s an archaic model.
It’s fair to criticise Lemmy for using this approach. I genuinely see where you are coming from. But if we approach Lemmy as an evolution of old style forums, then the “hide” approach makes more sense.
With admins, mods (not relevant for default UI?) actively dealing with mass downvotes, stalker-like behaviour and so on.
Part of the adoption of the dual-side block method is because large corps want automation and don’t really care about quality (all about engagement).
As I said, I see where you are coming from and you do have a point.
I am just trying to explain the reasoning behind the opposing arguement. It’s not just being old school for the sake of being old school.
The forums of old weren’t not just a few hundred users. Some of the bigger ones had DAUs in the tens of thousands.