Most of the time it’s just differences in cognitive processing. She doesn’t mean any harm and is most likely is only wired through nature and nurture to see life and problem solving through different lens. I would encourage you to take an MBTI test with her to find out her cognitive style and cater to it for the most productive discussions. You both would indeed benefit from it. From what I’ve read you strike me as an ENTP and she strikes me as an ISTJ so read about the ISTJ type (once verified) and tailor your pitch to how she would best absorb it.
Wouldn’t hurt to try a pull marketing strategy like a profile on fiverr where people come actively looking for the service you are providing. Then it’s a cost and service game. It helps because the potential buyer is usually further down the adoption decision pipeline.