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Cake day: December 27th, 2025

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  • It’s my belief that the moment human beings are finally able to accept that others will like things differently than they do- will be the moment EVERYTHING clicks into place and a lot of our problems will just disappear.

    It can start with irrelevant things like- fruit on pizza, and end with monumentally life affirming things like- who we can love and want to spend our lives with.

    Because at The end of the meal- or the day- no one’s life was made worse by the decision another made on behalf of their own.








  • Maybe change your perspective on downvotes?

    Sometimes, people just don’t want to hear what you have to say, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Know that unpopular opinions aren’t wrong opinions, it’s just that lemmy is a giant echo chamber of smaller sub-echo chambers. It’s impossible to make everyone like everthing you say, but hiding the bad doesn’t make it less bad.

    And it should go without mentioning, downvotes don’t even mean anything. There is zero value in upvotes/downvotes. So just take them for what they are- useless internet points that can be exploited by basement-dwelling mouth-breathers when they dislike something said. Whether it be because you spoke the truth, or just an opinion they disagree with.

    It’s a lot better than living in a false world where it appears as if everything you say is loved by everyone.

    Personally, I think the entire upvote/downvote thing is the dumbest thing to come to Internet forums, but that’s just my unpopular opinion.