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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • That is more than “Hey come here”.

    If it’s “hey come here (look at this for 5 seconds)” it’s a completely different thing that him getting his knickers in a bunch because you’re not following his narrative when you’re taking care of the household.

    The way you described it was more of him seeing something on the pc and asking you to come look or him asking you to come over and help him temporarily with something.

    Not disregard household chores so that you can play his game in the middle of the night.

    I would say it’s two different things completely.

    I am sorry that I misunderstood the situation. I would also tell him to man the fuck up or there will be consequences. And the consequences would be you not doing his part of the dishes or his psrt of the laundry so that he will have to pick up the slack or however the hell you want to retaliate. Unacceptable. You deserve someone who appreciates you for whonyou are and what you do.



  • Why wouldn’t you want to see the stuff that the person you like wants to show you? If you don’t want to go why don’t you just say “no”? Your partner isn’t a villain for wanting to show you stuff. They either wants to make your day a bit better, share something they like with you or they might need help with something.

    Because I really don’t get why you have to be anxious about “going over there”.