

I hesitate to post this, but…
I actually have experience with that.
And unfortunately, nothing I did worked, and ultimately I had to get away to save my own sanity
The problem was that she had effectively perfect defenses. In most cases, she could twist whatever I said to further “prove” that she was right and I was wrong, and in the rare cases in which I managed to say something that finally backed her into a corner from which she couldn’t spin it back against me, that, to her, just “proved” that I (or, often, “everybody”) hated her / wanted to hurt her / didn’t care about her / wanted to see her suffer / etc.
I never once, as far as I could tell, actually got through to her.





Yes - this is not Reddit.
Which is exactly why I’m not going to stand for a poster trying to saddle me with some asinine strawman version of my actual points.
The other poster self-evidently believed that I was either so stupid that I actually believed that “this is all the fault of the Democrats” or that I was so stupid that I’d let that ridiculous strawman slide. And in either case fully deserved a verbal smack upside the head, and that specifically because this isn’t Reddit. Leave that sort of cheap, intellectually dishonest bullshit there.