I would keep the vague answers and start asking the questions myself. Very specific and more personal each time. To see where she can get before she gets the message.

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Not very punk, but a step in the right direction I think. The garden it’s good enough to get some strawberries as a snack or complete your salad with a fresh tomato from time to time. Of course it would make much more sense to have all the surrounding park planted with vegetables… but it’s something.