• 3 Posts
  • 542 Comments
Joined 5 months ago
cake
Cake day: June 4th, 2025

help-circle


















  • Its difficult. Society and community are so fragmented now. People don’t want to ask for help. People don’t want to give unsolicited help.

    I’ve got skills and support I can offer. I’m not even asking others for anything. People don’t even want to take the offer to give unconditionally. I’ll give you a lift…they don’t want it. I can help fix things in your house …they don’t want it. Feel free to borrow my tools…they don’t want it. I can look after your kids for a few hours and give you a break, my kids would love to play with them at our house…they understandably feel anxious about that. No problem, come over yourself with your kids on the weekend, we’ll make you lunch, get to know us…they don’t want it. You’re starting in the same career field that I’ve progressed in, I’ve got resources that will help…they don’t want it. I’ll share my Jellyfin server…they don’t want it.

    I don’t get it. I just want to connect with people and help them…they don’t want it.


  • AI has been absolutely great for a bunch of things for me.

    Breaking free from exploitative companies has been so great for me and I wouldn’t have been able to do it at all without AI. I wouldn’t have been able to switch to Linux or get through the troubleshooting and problem solving without it. I wouldn’t be able to set up my home server or my self hosted services without AI. AI regularly helps me find how to put a formula into an excel file, or write an initial draft outline of some tedious writeup. AI helps give suggestions for travel itinerary or possible shopping choices to start researching a purchase.

    AI is perfect as an assistant in scenarios where I do not care at all of it is completely wrong. I wouldn’t havr been able to do some of these things that have been so important to me. I’ve also been able to get my parents to find help themselves for simple tech problems.

    My problem with AI is all the other shit around it. Unethical training. Replacing people’s jobs. Unsustainable deployment with the power and water use. It’s impossible to find human generated reviews online. I wouldn’t mind at all of AI disappeared completely tomorrow. But I’ve been able to get a lot of good use out of it.