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Cake day: 17 April 2024

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  • I’m somewhat in favor of using yucky words for giving nuance as long as the rest of the text implies you’re not one to use the phrases in an earnest way.

    I’ve had mixed results on Lemmy with words like “homemaker” when trying to discuss a specific kind of social expectation, and then got immediately told off for using it. I never use it. It was the right word in the moment.

    Maybe write “what they’re gleefully call X” instead of “X” and it would keep the yuck factor of putting the word there without seeming like you’re taking the word at face value




  • Browse All. I never did this on Reddit but it’s the only thing I do here.

    I used Reddit for over a decade and quit cold turkey when the API got removed. Nothing has given me the same feeling since, but frankly Reddit hasn’t either for maybe half of those years.

    The site grew up alongside me and was an important thing for me to learn about tons and tons and tons of new things.

    Lemmy has less content, and that’s okay. Open Lemmy, run out of content, like just finish for the day and then get up and do something else. We have about 75 years of functional brains give or take, your life won’t be meaningfully enriched by throwing an extra two hours a day into a link aggregator.

    Welcome to the community community. Nothing will be the same as early Reddit and especially not Reddit, so don’t chase that high. You’ll be fine



  • I think those are where it started from but the BIFL sub degraded into a community built around obsessive buying of the “right” stuff.

    I have a cheap nonstick pan. I use it like five times a year. I’m fine with that. Regular stainless pots and pans will last well over a decade unless you start dropping them on the floor twice a week, even if they’re not as fancy as the stuff that gets advertised as BIFL. It’s not that complicated





  • I pay for convenience all the time, to a degree where I feel like I’m being a wasteful person sometimes. But cooling down a hot beverage feels like something I would hate myself for not figuring out how to do for free.

    If you usually make a kind of coffee where you dilute a concentrate (americano, aeropress…) you probably would have already thought of diluting with cooler water. Assuming you don’t want to play around with ratios I think your best bet is using the mugs you have and just making the coffee cooler before you pour it in.

    Maybe make it in a chilled receptacle? Like if it’s a pour over or a pod coffee where you make it in a container and pour it into your mug. Glass might break though. Maybe.

    Maybe have iced coffee? Or drop a solitary smaller ice cube into the coffee, if you don’t mind the dilution?

    Maybe try drinking the hot coffee at your destination as the intentional routine instead?

    Why am I now invested in this all of a sudden? I think I would personally drop a small ice cube in or pour a tiny bit of cold water or leave the mug in the fridge overnight if we’re talking like it’s still devil’s piss hot by midday





  • I have a spare G604 in a drawer and my first one has new switches, a new scroll wheel, and a new 3D printed shell to replace the crumbling rubber original.

    It’s damn near perfect for me, especially the device switching button being so accessible. Getting it to work despite the planned obsolescence isn’t that much effort all things considered.

    I’ll admit the switch replacement surgery is unnecessarily complicated for a fucking computer mouse. Way too many interlocking parts. If you still have it in a drawer, I really think it might be worth looking into it.

    I’ve actually posted about it to where else but Dull Men’s Club



  • I never finished it but I jump into it every five or so years. It still gives me a bit of that open world magic that I used to feel. The world is just full enough of stuff to do without feeling like cheap padding, and the atmosphere is really nice. It just makes me feel like how I want these games to make me feel. The graphics and physics are dated but they are all I need for this atmosphere.

    I think like a lot of people I wasn’t as enthused about the uniformed police missions. Especially because of the setting. The protests in Beirut and in HK had a lot of overlap so there was a lot of “tried and tested” safety measures we were getting directly from what was happening there. It’s not quite copaganda so it’s fine

    Maybe I should make an effort to finish it already. I can’t keep relearning the combat every few years.