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  • Years ago I kept having this argument with the party fighter. I was playing a rogue. He had some sort of magical lens with a bonus to find traps. I was like, “let me use that so I can find traps better. You can’t even find traps with a DC above 20, rules as written. That’s a rogue class feature. With the lens I’d be getting like 27 if I take 10.”

    He was like “no. It’s mine. I found it.”

    Like, my guy. We’re all in danger if we don’t find the traps. You don’t see me holding onto armor I can’t use.



  • Do you actually do work or are you one of those middle-men that add dubious value?

    And, like, do you think I can read my coworker’s screen from across the room and be like “Ah yes, that is TransferProjectView.py. I should tell him that I am also planning on touching that file”?

    And adults can learn to explicitly communicate. It’s not impossible. You just type into the box.



  • It’s frustrating because management are so colossally, transparently, stupid but they get the big paychecks and the workers get fucked. And then like half the workers sit there going “Well this is just and fair. this is a good world. If the people actually doing the work had more of a say, that’s communism and thus axiomatically bad”







  • Off topic nitpick: If you use > for quotes instead of triple backticks, it wraps the text better (at least in firefox)

    Yes. Driving too slow on a highway can be dangerous. This graphic is not suggesting you drive 50% of the speed limit. It’s advocating for not speeding.
    

    vs

    Yes. Driving too slow on a highway can be dangerous. This graphic is not suggesting you drive 50% of the speed limit. It’s advocating for not speeding.

    > is typically for quotes, and the backticks for code, too.


  • I feel like a common problem is people say they want to play D&D, but in the same way that people say they want to go to the gym, or take up weaving, or whatever. A lot of people are really bad at honestly, accurately, evaluating their future self’s energy level and interest.

    There’s also people who say they’d totally like to join their D&D game, but they don’t really. They’re just afraid of conflict or hurting your feelings. There’s this thing some people do where they try to spare someone’s feelings by being a little dishonest, and end up causing a lot more problems. I would so much rather someone just say to my face “I don’t want to play D&D” than “oh yeah that sounds fun” and then they keep having scheduling conflicts or flake or ghost.

    So yeah, I don’t know. Some people are just a mess.




  • I think some people are bad at reading through no real fault of their own. Then they feel, consciously or subconsciously, embarrassed and angry when they try.

    I also think a lot about a woman I knew that was like “analysis is stupid. Sometimes a story is just a story!”, and that was very strange to me. I asked some more questions, and she said she hated how in school they were always reading and being told to find the secret meaning. I was like, your education failed you. The game isn’t find the meaning. The game is finding a meaning you can support in the text.

    Like, Dracula can just be a book about a dude that bites people. But you can also look at it and be like “hmm so these women abandon their ‘motherly’ duties of raising children and staying in the home, and the only way to ‘fix’ them is for some men to hold her down and penetrate her with a big piece of wood? Hmmm”

    But, also, you don’t have to think hard about everything you read. You don’t analyze every TV show, even though you could.