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Cake day: February 22nd, 2026

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  • I don’t find “lol 5% of the time something WACKY happens!” very fun very long, no. That is too high a frequency for freak events. Actually, it’s 10% because people do wackiness on natural 1s and natural 20s. That’s too much! That’s so much it’s distracting.

    I outlined the dice system I liked from nWoD in another comment. You can get some wild outcomes there, but it’s not the absurd flat “10% of every roll is insanely good or bad”. You get the occasional “I can’t believe I rolled three tens convinced the vampire I was a wizard!”, still.


  • I am a huge fan of dice pools and absolutely done with “roll one die vs target”. The flat probability you get from one die doesn’t give results that feel good.

    I was a big fan of the nWoD’s S10 system. Add up your stat, skill, and relevant bonuses, roll this many d10s. Every one that comes up as {8, 9, 10} adds to degree of success. Roll another die for every one that came up {10}, possibly repeating if you keep rolling 10s.

    You get pretty consistent results. Someone who’s a professional will throw ~6 dice on average, so they’re very likely to succeed on basic tasks. Much less of that “lol the wizard rolled a 1 and forgot how to read” or “barbarian rolled a 20, I guess he can speak infernal?” weirdness. You still get freak outliers every once in a while, where someone rolls like six 10s in a row and everyone’s cheering. But not 5% of the time, and not so binary.

    Plus there’s other “dice tricks” you can apply for different circumstances. “Reroll all failed dice once”, “reroll 9s like 10s”, etc.

    1d20+stuff is just so basic and threadbare. It’s not even easier. nWod’s dice pool you don’t even have to add. You just count. We all know players that can’t add 16+7, but they can probably count to 4.




  • I did some webdriver stuff for reasons I don’t remember anymore.

    I also made a simple Django app to track job applications.

    Unsolicited advice:

    • use type annotations. You’ll thank yourself later when your IDE tells you “hey this can be None are you sure you want to call .some_func() on it?”
    • use an ide. Don’t just raw dog it in notepad. You should have syntax highlighting, red squiggles for errors, the ability to go to definition.
    • learn to use a debugger. Pdb is built in and fine.
    • don’t write mega functions that do a thousand things. Split things up into smaller steps.
    • avoid side effects. You don’t want your “say_hello” function to also turn on the lights













  • The other person’s reply about how you present it is pretty apt. There’s a big difference between “I have a shitty two-year old spawn I have to see on the weekends” and “I have joint custody with an amazing toddler. He loves the park and Legos, and so do I, so that works out”

    But also imagine how you’d feel if you only found out the other person has some deal breaker for you after investing time and effort. Probably annoyed, right? Don’t hide stuff or assume you’re so great you can trivially change their world view, trauma, allergies, etc.


  • My advice will be as a guy who does not date men.

    The dating apps suck but they are widely used. I will give some advice about them, because from what I’ve seen people are bad at using them.

    You don’t have to spend money on them.

    Write good messages. Don’t use AI. Don’t use the same message copy-pasted. Ready their profile, and ask a question about it. If they’re doing it right, the stuff on their profile is stuff they want to talk about. If they say they love Star Trek, ask if they watched the new stuff.

    If they reply competently (ie: not a one word answer, some spirit, ask you a question back), repeat once or twice, clear any deal breakers, and ask them out. Too many people fart around chatting on these apps for days and then are surprised they’re not getting dated. They’re being preempted by people who actually show up.

    About deal breakers: be up front. Don’t hide stuff. What’s a deal breaker is subjective but things like having a kid already.

    You will be rejected far more than not. That’s fine. Once you swipe yes or send a message, put them out of your mind. Keep going.

    When you get on the date, ask questions. Don’t interrogate them. I’ve had some where it felt like a job interview where they quickly brought up and dropped topics. If you’re talking all about yourself and not giving them space, they’re not going to have any fun. Follow up on topics.

    Ask for consent. If it’s going well, you can just ask to kiss them. Almost every person I’ve been with has said they appreciate that a lot more than the “oh things are happening uh oh” default.

    That’s all I feel like typing now.