To be clear, I’m not using attractive here to mean “physically beautiful” but instead “possessing qualities the other person wants in a partner.” Weird was a word choice for humor but I was essentially saying, “have more attractive qualities than unattractive qualities.” While recognizing that what one person finds unattractive, another might find attractive, and vice versa. By definition, simplifying a complex interaction of human wants and desires into one dimension, rendering it intentionally useless as advice, for the sake of trying to be funny.
- 0 Posts
- 211 Comments
Nah I think it’s a pretty simple algorithm still: don’t be weirder than you are attractive. It’s just that there’s really wildly varying ideas on what’s weird or attractive.
He went on an unhinged racist rant about Black Lives Matter in 2023, ending with something along the lines of “white people get as far away from black people as possible.” More details on his Wiki page but that’s the high level.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
News@lemmy.world•Scott Adams, 'Dilbert' creator and conservative commentator, dies at 68
24·10 days agoIt was a wild character arc. Paraphrasing heavily…
90s “Corporations are stupid and abusive to employees”
2001 “What if we’re all just fragments of God? Why do we fight each other?”
2009 “Place bets on the people you hate most, they always seem to win.”
2023 “Black Lives Matter is a racist hate group.”
2025 “Trump will fix everything. Also please get me into a medical trial daddy.”
I was really holding out for the redemption arc but alas.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
News@lemmy.world•Scott Adams, 'Dilbert' creator and conservative commentator, dies at 68
39·10 days agoI’m a little sad about it. I liked his writing in the late 90s/early 2000s. Very anti-corporate. Imperfect but fairly progressive. It seemed like he was just a hippie at heart. I wish I understood what happened to him. From the outside looking in my best guess is falling victim to his success, he began to think too highly of himself, and maybe a bit too much paying attention to Fox News. It was a wild turnaround from my perspective.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
Dull Men's Club@lemmy.world•I eat the same meal every day, and have for the past four years.
2·2 months agoI do this but with two trips exactly because of produce and such. I try to do a lot of fresh vegetables so like half my cart is usually produce but then I had to throw things away too often. Two trips seems like the minimum.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•What are some of the worst code you have seen in a production environment?
2·2 months agoThere’s a part of me that kind of feels like this could work if you just do it right. Like the idea is kind of cool, in a way.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
Games@lemmy.world•Valve confirms Steam Machine will be priced ‘like a PC with the same level of performance’English
4·2 months agoHad a Windows PC hooked up to my TV in I think 2008, before streaming boxes and mass adoption of Netflix. Then it was dualboot for a while starting in I think 2015, originally with Ubuntu. Now it’s full time CachyOS Linux as of 2023.
It’s always been great. Wireless keyboard with the built in trackpad, plus originally 360 controllers but now 8BitDo Ultimate controllers. Plus I use it for homelab tinkering.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•On a 2025 Tesla? Quit your bullshit rule.English
3·2 months agoSure, absolutely, but then people shame people for having a used one too so it’s just hot potato.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•On a 2025 Tesla? Quit your bullshit rule.English
125·2 months agoI don’t get the “just sell it” crowd. Your solution is playing hot potato with a car. Like someone is still getting that car. Unless you manage to sell it to Tesla themselves I guess, but it’s my understanding that they only take them on trade-in.
So the choices you’re proposing are: Sell a car so it’s now Someone Else’s Problem, which isn’t a great look for you. Or scrap a perfectly usable car creating a bunch of waste, which isn’t a great look for you.
Just let people have their old cars, geez.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
Memes@sopuli.xyz•You can always emulate Call of Duty for the DS
16·2 months agoThere’s definitely something to this. Like I’m often scared to be part of any group because inevitably someone in that group will be an asshole. I have played video games for a long time but I refuse to refer to myself as a “gamer” because of the associations.
It’s not the homosexuality, it’s the hypocrisy. I’m hypocrisyphobic
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
politics @lemmy.world•Sanders calls deal to end government shutdown a "disaster"
12·2 months agoThe biggest problem with leaving it up to the states is that the party that is always harping on about states’ rights is a bunch of disingenuous liars who immediately start restricting states’ rights the second the state doesn’t do what they want.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
politics @lemmy.world•Trump's "Truth AI" Says He Lost the 2020 Election, and Tariffs Are Taxes
7·2 months agoIt’s actually something that gives me hope in the world. LLMs are predicting the words they use based on being fed tremendous amounts of data. The fact that they’re having trouble getting them to parrot lies is a good sign that the vast majority of data sources are actually agreeing on the truth. At least that’s how I view it.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
politics @lemmy.world•Trump's bright view of the economy doesn't match what voters are seeing
1·3 months agoIf I could make one wish to fix things, it would be to eradicate all externalities. Don’t get me wrong, I’m aware this would absolutely suck for a while. Without some kind of matching increase in wages or subsidies, it would ruin a lot of people that I don’t think deserve it. But when you have to pay for the cost of recapturing the CO2 you produce, when you have to pay for the actual cost of producing the plastic you throw away, we would very quickly get better alternatives. Biodegradable packaging would become more common. Alternatives to gas would explode. Interest in walkable areas and public transit would grow. Industries that really need disposable plastics are also rich enough to afford proper disposal, like medicine and electronics. After enough time, we’d just live in a better, cleaner world with less waste and more care put into our distribution networks.
We only have all the bullshit because they’ve been pushing the bill along to the next generation and the next and the next, and we are seeing the bill come due.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
politics @lemmy.world•Trump Says He’ll Defy Court Order, Withhold SNAP Until Dems Drop Demands and Reopen Gov’t
4·3 months agoThe Secret Service should be trained to arrest or assassinate the President if he openly violates the constitution.
psivchaz@reddthat.comto
politics @lemmy.world•All Republicans Defeated as Democrats Sweep Key Races in Three States Ahead of Midterms
6·3 months agoHere’s why I still think of it as a win: It’s not just the contest between two people, or their ideas, or their backgrounds. What you really have to look at is the contest between the propaganda and the budgets. The simple fact is that a lot of voters aren’t that involved, they vote based on word of mouth or advertising, not by looking into the backgrounds of those they’re voting for.
Cuomo outspent Mamdani 4 to 1. Billionaires and politicians went all out to attack Mamdani. Many painted apocalyptic pictures. If you look at those more distant contests, where someone won by a wider margin, I would bet that the advertising and endorsements weren’t so lopsided either.
This isn’t a win for Democrats or Mamdani, this is a win for word of mouth campaigning. This is a win for people being so sick of what’s on offer that many ignored the dire warnings of billionaires and politicians. That’s some good news I can get behind.
The DUI device will let you shift into neutral? I thought usually you had to turn the key to get it into neutral.




This is like 1/3 the reason I think we should legalize sex work. There’s some percentage of people who might have sex finally, and realize “Yes that’s fun but maybe I shouldn’t shape my whole life around it” and go on to form hobbies and interests that will make them more successful in life and in love.