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Cake day: January 27th, 2025

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  • Why would you want to fix it if he constantly pushes your boundaries purposely? If he didn’t contact you on your wedding, was he invited? Did you ask him to come? That’s one thing. If you didn’t well, that’s kinda the precedence you set by not speaking to him, so why would he? You made a decision to stop talking to him based on your boundaries, either concede some of those boundaries or get used to it. My shitbag brother set strange boundaries when he had his kids and got real weird out of nowhere such as no TV for then kids ever, no video games like we grew up playing, no toy guns, he bought a cheap ass house in one of the worst hoods in my city and he NEVER let me take care of then kids by myself… prior to this I raised 2 girls with my ex that were her sisters, because she had a drug problem. I got married, I didn’t invite him but I also didn’t expect some sort of congratulations. Based off the conversation we had, he is out of my life and has been for 5 years. You gotta get off the fence and either make up or accept things for what they are, which is, the two of you are no longer compatible as humans. Once I accepted that, I’m fine, it goes away, just takes time.