We settled on Tenerife, Spain because of the relatively cheap international schools and because we wanted to stay a bit longer (we don’t want to uproot our kid constantly). As EU citizens it was just much easier to stay here long term visa-wise etc. They do offer nomad visas with a 24% flat tax if you qualify for them. We’ve spend some time in SEA and noticed it’s much less fun with kids (Road safety, food sprayed with formaldehyde etc.). So right now we’re enjoying probably the best climate available within the EU and are very happy with the cost of living here.
Had a normal 9-5 gig and during the pandemic the company went fully remote. So I moved where the ocean is vast and the rents are lower ;-)