My SO and I have experimented with most of that, and it turns out, pound town is the best option for my SO, and my little member is happy to oblige.
Try different things, communicate about what works, and don’t always do the thing you both prefer, because variety is the spice of life. And hey, maybe that thing you tried a few years ago and didn’t like is interesting again (e.g. SO is liking being on top more now that they have more stamina from regular exercise). People change, just make sure to communicate and back down if it’s not working.
The most important thing is to communicate.
My SO and I have experimented with most of that, and it turns out, pound town is the best option for my SO, and my little member is happy to oblige.
Try different things, communicate about what works, and don’t always do the thing you both prefer, because variety is the spice of life. And hey, maybe that thing you tried a few years ago and didn’t like is interesting again (e.g. SO is liking being on top more now that they have more stamina from regular exercise). People change, just make sure to communicate and back down if it’s not working.