I like how lemm.ee didn’t defederated very many people and maintained a chill vibe in terms of moderation.
What instances have similar vibe?
Edit: I been looking into it and seems that an instance with a similar outlook on federation and not full of power tripping admins censoring is hilariouschaos.com
Communick aligns 100% with sunaurus’s views regarding defederation. I’ve put a special offer for those who want to try it: https://lemm.ee/post/65961634