I mean, is this normal?

One complained about me to our superior and I was moved to a position elsewhere within the same company. She now sees me and greets me like nothing happened, which strikes me as very odd. 9 months after I was moved she was moved to a different department as well.

The other is a gossip, badmouthed me constantly, lazied around and now, each time she sees me, she greets me effusively, as if we were best friends. WTF?

I simply don’t understand why people (women?) do this.

Has this happened to you before?

Other than ignoring and gray rock them I don’t know what else to do.

But what in the actual heck are they thinking?

  • Limfjorden@feddit.dkEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Idk man, you don’t provide very many details about what happened.

    One complained about me to our superior and I was moved to a position elsewhere within the same company.

    Did you do anything to warrant a complaint?

    The other is a gossip, badmouthed me constantly, lazied around

    What does this mean? It sounds to me like you are badmouthing her too.

  • spittingimage@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Yes, this has happened to me. The woman in question was at the time under investigation by HR for bullying her direct reports, so she was probably trying to smooth things over with her previous victims. Didn’t help her.

  • disregardable@lemmy.zip
    3·
    2 months ago

    This is normal . They think that saying hello to people you know is being polite and that polite people still don’t treat the people they hate badly. It’s not just women. I had a prolonged issue with a male coworker involving that.