I took my girlfriend and friend out to dinner.
Friend says, “I love living with someone.”
Turning to my girlfriend, she asks, “how do you feel?”
My girlfriend looks at me and then replies, “it’s…fine.”
What do you feel is an appropriate response?
I sat down with her later and tried to talk about it, but she said she was joking. I just don’t get the joke.
Bro, if that’s the worst thing your spouse ever says to you, you’re a blessed man. Being able to get past things is a big part of any relationship. TBH, if you’re truly not able to let it go (again, barring any other information about how she treats you), you might need to consider whether marriage is for you. Living with a partner with that kind of commitment takes a lot of work and a lot of flexibility. You gotta roll with the punches sometimes.
You seem genuine and sincere. I’m sorry that you’re hurting, and. I hope you feel better soon man. Best wishes, for real.