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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • I feel this

    Maybe start with a decisive commitment to one place, one rental property - for at least 3 months. Maybe longer visa depending. Then plan the next similar length stay.

    Having plans well in advance is the key to maximising control and calm.

    Then set about making those deep decisions about what you really want. Are you just tired of changing rental every month, or do you want to own a forever home, and sometimes travel?

    Decision paralysis is likely with our infinite choice lifestyle - so many degrees of freedom in every part of life. Decide what’s important, weigh up your options, pick one or some, and get to it.

    Removing time pressure from decisions transforms them from a hassle to a pleasure - from a risk to an opportunity.








  • Companies use sophisticated manipulation to exploit employees more effectively - creating one-sided loyalty and emotional connections. Your guilt is a normal human reaction, but not well adapted to this reality. The reality is it’s a transaction. Do your tasks, no more no less. Take the money. Live your life.

    “We are a family” is the biggest red flag - the worst businesses I’ve encountered ALL said this.

    As another said, don’t be cynical, but do open your eyes and look after your interests.

    They would fire you in a heartbeat for trifling reasons.