i find this very satisfying: gently disagreeing with them via a short single positive message like “gay people do deserve respect”, then letting them throw a very lengthy, time-invested tantrum before gently and completely disagreeing with their comment with another short sentence, over and over until they get tired.

i find that both very funny and I’m putting out positive messages that negate their bigotry without too much time or effort.

that’s just if you have the time and inclination to engage, you aren’t morally obligated to subject yourself to abusive behavior.

if it’s real bad, they’re probably violating a rule, and reporting them will get them banned

hated that work culture so i left as soon as the opportunity presented itself.

went to teach ESL. half the hours for better pay

i travel constantly, and every time I’m flying in a plane i am re-amazed.

i think about how easy and quick it is to fly anywhere in the world and I’m sitting in a bit metal tube floating in the air.

it’s bananas.

I make my own DIY huaraches like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1FrEgeP9jI

extremely comfortable, you can make it with any old slipper lying around and some paracord, lasts for 6 months to a year, depending on the quality of the sandal base.

adjust it to exactly your size that fits perfectly and then you can sew the knots so that all the dimensions stay the same.

takes me maybe 5 minutes to make each pair, and then 5 minutes for the sewing of the knots so I never have to readjust them, costs nearly nothing.

every story I’ve heard about them sounds like yours.

ESL industry is always looking for native speakers to teach English, for your back pocket.

Lemmy is a much nicer environment overall, so i moved here

wow that is crazy, your dad’s actions were crazy I mean, I’m glad to hear you came out to him and severed that tie.

“Parents have no hold over you, not really. If they don’t deserve your presence, don’t allow it.”

can’t agree more with you here.

sorry to hear that.

you certainly don’t have to travel if you dont want to, I just like people being aware of the option, but I’m not following one thing:

How does disagreeing with and being alienated from your family make traveling less of an option for you?

living outside the country good buddy

i haven’t myself, but i became friends with a chilean couple who traveled around the world according to berry season, Australia, Italy, Germany and so on picking berries, living in free housing while saving for a house back home.

they seemed pretty into the lifestyle, or at least willing to trade a few years for traveling and a house.

kick their teeth in

absolutely, you’ll be good.

I could barely count to ten and knew how to say pho, and still enjoyed my entire trip and made friends, so you’ll be fine.

haha me too, i thought it was pretty funny there.

Very well.

I spoke nearly no Vietnamese and bikepacked across rural northern Vietnam for 3 months after buying my bicycle in Hanoi.

People in the city can speak some English, but even if they can’t they’re so earnestly helpful that I was able to easily buy clothes, bicycle repair items, get my bicycle repaired, buy food everyday(pho lyfe) be invited to tea and then a family feast, take shelter from a rainstorm, the stories of their generosity go on.

It’s definitely a good country to visit.

The mountains are pretty magical, and every single person was extremely helpful and gracious, either in the city or way out in the tiny mountain villages

no, why?

Are you asking another “is this possible at all” question?

the coolest.

i was on a bike, so i guess he felt like he had to hustle.

bruhbviously:

definitive.

Birds aren’t real; eggs are.

but eggs.

Vietnam, Thailand, India, Guatemala, Taiwan is a good call.

in Vietnam, someone literally ran out of their house while I was stopping to adjust my headphones in order to invite me to breakfast at his home.

he had a tiny orchard in his front yard and we shared mango, dragonfruit and pancakes.