I see you, dutifully trying to cover all the slight and misinformation in here with proper attributions and context.

It must be exhausting.

Thanks for effort, and don’t forget to breathe and keep hydrated. Thanks for trying to hold community together.

I brought up an example of a specific sexist and controlling behavior I observed (guys holding their wives or girlfriends by the neck while walking across the street, like they were steering a chicken) in a meetup group and all the men around me said they had never seen it. The two women said they both had experienced it.

Repeat this a thousand and one times with other behavior I and presumably you, as men, will never have to experience but are just as real.

I’m with you on this one.