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Cake day: June 2nd, 2023

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  • I was married already when I met my now wife. My first wife lived overseas and we hadn’t been together for about 8 years.

    Our two children lived with me, but we didn’t have a separation or legal custody agreement. Doing all of that internationally, getting all the documents professionally translated, court dates, etc. was extremely challenging.

    So we waited several years until both kids were legally adults and we just had to deal with the divorce (which itself took almost 3 years) before making things official.

    That said, my case is much less typical than a guy just lying about his domestic circumstances.













  • I just watched this movie last night. I thought it was trying to be Disney. Cute alien sidekick, happy ending. Not much tension, because it was obvious that they were going to survive and save the day. I kept hoping for a shocking loss, but it never came. Or when it came, it turned out not to be a loss after all.

    There were some really good elements in the plot, the science waved its hands in just the right places to make it plausible, and the visuals were spectacular. Gosling did very well as the only person in the majority of the movie.

    One thing bothered me: they were at Tau Ceti, 11.9 light years from earth, but the return trip was only going to take 4 years and change. How did that work?