• SwizzleStick@lemmy.zip
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    14 days ago

    Jfc, that’s my mortgage at least 4 times over. Any money spent on your kid is well spent, but it’s horrible that you must sacrifice that much.

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        Mine is just over $1000 in an urban area for a town home. We got lucky though and got in right before things went stupid in 2020, so that’s part of it. Also made the move and investment of a heavy down payment because we saw rent was going to become unlivable, and sure enough it happened.

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        14 days ago

        Not in the US. Suburban Wales, UK.

        It affords a 3-bedroom terraced home. It used to be cheaper before our previous UK government fucked interest rates.

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          14 days ago

          Holy shit that’s amazing. 3 bedrooms WITH a terrace?

          AND you get free healthcare?

          God you guys live like kings

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            14 days ago

            Terraced in this instance means there are two other homes, one either side, that we share walls with.

            Having good neighbours is essential.

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      I’d do it all over in a heartbeat but it would be nice if it wasn’t so damn expensive. Compared to the literal millions of dollars all my kid’s surgeries, hospital stays, home nursing, medical supplies, prescriptions, and equipment costs it’s a small price to pay. So I guess I should consider myself lucky.

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        14 days ago

        “Shit could be worse” never ceases to be true.

        Best wishes from me, sounds like you have a handful.

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          14 days ago

          Referring to the place you live as hell while having free healthcare and a $600 mortgage on a 3 bedroom house has demoralized every American who read your comment.

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            14 days ago

            Tongue in cheek, of course.

            The free healthcare has nosedived over the last 2 decades. It’s still free, but wait times for everything are insane unless you are actively dying. People can wait years for routine procedures & treatments. A regular GP appointment is weeks, unless you snag an ‘emergency’ appointment by phoning in at 8am sharp and beating everyone else doing the same.

            If you need an ambulance and aren’t having a cardiac episode or similar - good luck and hope someone can drive your ass to hospital. Wait times are hours at minimum. A long time to be writhing around in (non life threatening!) pain.

            Yes it is free. Unfortunately it is underfunded and overworked.

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              13 days ago

              Let me guess… the right wing in your country works to keep it that way to legitimize their case for privatizing healthcare?

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                It’s a nickel & dimed hot potato that neither side wants to take the hit on now. Our ‘left’ (Labour) has moved right enough now that it is unrecognisable from the party that Blair led in the 90s. It took unprecedented levels of corruption, cronyism and flat out fraud from the previous Tory run government to change the winds - and honestly it’s the same wind with a slightly more palatable odour.

                Brexit did the service no favours. We used to be able to tap an increasing array of medical talent from the EU, which promptly plateaued then stagnated after the vote. Now we have more and more locums and agency staff that cost a bomb to keep up. Ironically, we are now seeing an marked increase of African and Asian staffers, which the racist idiots that voted Leave abhor.

                https://ukandeu.ac.uk/what-has-brexit-meant-for-the-nhs/

                Another major question is how Brexit affects the NHS workforce. New nurses arriving from the EU and EFTA states slowed to near zero immediately and dental recruitment entered a prolonged slowdown, exacerbated in both cases by a new language testing regime.

                As with funding, both the politics and the actual impact of this were based on a longstanding problem caused by domestic short-termism: many key staff groups were in serious shortage seven years ago, and many still are. The reaction of successive governments has been to repeatedly reform visa rules to enable a very high rate of recruitment from Africa and Asia.

                While I have no issues with the nationalities of the people there to make me well, it has led to shortcomings such as the Nigerian nurse scandal.

                Along with the many, many strikes that have occurred - the argument for privatisation sadly becomes stronger. I’m actually on our work’s healthcare plan as an employee benefit, something I have never experienced before. It’s very nice for me, but it shows that my company does not trust the public system to ensure my continued fitness for work.

                Big ramble there, sorry.