I saw a ton of people getting pulled over on the highway (because for some reason holidays where I live seem to require more speed traps) and I went “oh yeah that’s today”. Which was basically all the thought I gave it lol.

Also for the love of god it’s Valentine’s Day

I’m fine with it as a whole, but what grinds my gears about it is how everybody has to ask “who’s your valentine?” every year, as though they’re forced to at gunpoint.

Sure, when I eventually get into a relationship, I’ll celebrate Valentine’s Day because it’s actually a really nice premise (apart from the consumerism of course), but currently, I really don’t care to celebrate it, I’m just starting uni currently and id rather focus on that lol.

I also see it as a cruel reminder of my ineptitude with women, and I write this as somebody who lost their virginity on Valentines Day last year.

That being said, my hatred for the holiday has diminished over the years. You don’t really need a special holiday to justify going on a spontaneous date or showering your SO with sexy lingerie.

It’s a fake holiday created by corporations to sell people things they don’t need.

The only thing i consider are cheap chocolates shaped like hearts on stores right after it.

Me: what’s with all these dumbasses in line to buy flower? Ooohh….

Spent most of my 20s single and lonely. I typically would get fed up seeing all the ads and hearts and stuff, felt like it was getting rubbed in my face. Started using it as an excuse to go hang with my other single friends and grab some drinks for “anti-V day”. We didnt really sit around and hate on it, just would hang out like any other night. All in all it was a great solution, it didnt solve me being single but it wasnt lonely and we would all have fun.

Eventually I met someone good for me. Been together awhile now, and the funny thing is Vday has less meaning than ever. We do things for each other throughout the year because we want to. Going out for a nice dinner on Valentine’s actually sucks, so I usually just cook something decent and we chill on the couch. If we do decide to go out we do it two weeks before or after when its actually calm in a restaurant. Thats about it.

The day is one which the bourgeois class used to capitalise on basic human emotions, I have no interest in it

There are happily married people that don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day. It’s a Hallmark holiday—i.e. it was invented by a greeting card company. Its only meaning is the one you give it. Why give it the power to make you feel bad?

Im not sure what to think as ive never been in love or had friends, im only 20 and this it somewhat uncommon i think?

That’s not uncommon. It’s not good if you’re not happy with your situation. Good luck and hope that gets better.

Valentines day is pushed in everyone’s face because it’s ultra-commercialised and there’s money to be made. “Buy her diamonds this Valentines day”… WTF. It’s overhyped. People can celebrate as they like. People can ignore it as they please.

I’m single so I don’t care. Maybe next time I won’t be single and I will care.

What’s in a day? Eg Christmas is just another day, go for walk, enjoy yourself read a book.

Felt kinda sad about it, but I feel sad most days so it’s not really any different. Hung out with a friend which was nice.

I’m just glad to see someone else spell it as “valentimes”, highfive

1. ValentiNes

2. Use punctuation and capitalization if you want people to read your scrawl