Yeah I am coming to the same realisation. If anything it gets worse, since as an adult you are naturally going to be more isolated when you aren’t forced to socialize.
Practice. It gets easier with practice
Nah, when it comes to social shit like that, you just have not give a fuck what people think about you anymore, because honestly, they probably fucking aren’t. You’d have to be pretty egotistical to think so, and if you were, you’d probably be one of those douche bags that bothers girls who don’t want to talk to them.
You had me at first but lost me at the end. Social anxiety and low self confidence is the opposite of egotistic
There is a difference between confidence/self love and egoism.
Yeah, and that requires practice.
Or you could do the super smart cheat code way and eat waaay too many mushrooms one night thinking you can handle it, then get your ego absolutely fucking annihilated, realize you are actually one with the entirety of the universe and therefore actually just one with the girl you wanna talk to as all things are intrinsically entwined and you’ve finally achieved total absolute understanding of life and existence itself and hope you can explain it to her after it wears off with that same clarity without using the words “I’m literally inside you”.
Or so I hear…
Idk man I’d someone said this to me, I’d slowly back away. Mushrooms are cool, but not a silver bullet in anyway.
Hint: Enlightened people probably aren’t posting on Lemmy. XD
A well written resume, a firm handshake, and a willingness to knock on doors is the key to success.
I keep doing exactly this to the girl at the gas station but it hasn’t worked yet??
Maybe ask first?
Don’t be afraid to pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
OP also did not go outside for the past 15 years
Have you tried being blackout drunk?
That’s what did it for me
Does profusely apologizing for puking on their dress count as conversation?
If yes then I’ll have you know I’m quite the socializer.
Well it’s a start isn’t it?
Just do a little better next time and the next time and the next time.
You can improve at being black out drunk?
Yes.
I’m sure it has some effect on your subconscious
Wait to turn 40, I don’t give a f**k anymore what people think…
Anon never learned “practice makes perfect” lol.
Who said that? Nothing comes passively except death.
It’s pretty common to tell depressed or struggling people that things get better/easier, as if it happens passively and they just need to stick around, just hold out.
That is true of the moment. Moments of pain and morning do pass just like moments of happiness. But an unhealthy lifestyle makes pain more likely.
Not being able to treat people like people because they have different genitals, proving age is just a number.
You dont know what happened to this person.
Pretend you like, and are interested in the meaning of, her unnecessary wrist tattoo. That’s good for at least 5 minutes of conversation.
-Found a girl with a flower wrapping around her wrist and hand, I was genuinely interested because it was pretty af thank you
